Improve Parent-Child Communication
Communicating with your children
Monitor your child's online activity. Talk to your child about the dangers of the internet and make sure that they are using it safely.
Set clear expectations and boundaries. Children need to know what is expected of them and what the consequences will be if they do not meet those expectations.
Teach your child about consent. This is an important topic to discuss with children of all ages, but it is especially important during the tween and teen years. Teach your child that they have the right to say no to any physical contact that they do not want.
Help your child to develop their interests. Encourage your child to try new things and to pursue their interests.
Set limits on screen time. Children should have a limited amount of screen time each day. Make sure that they are using their screen time wisely.
Help your child to develop healthy coping skills. Children need to learn how to cope with difficult emotions in a healthy way. Teach your child about different coping mechanisms, such as talking to a trusted adult, exercising, or journaling.
Be supportive and encouraging. Let your child know that you believe in them and that you are there for them.
Be a good role model. Children learn by watching the adults in their lives. Set a good example by being honest, respectful, and responsible.
Be patient and understanding. Parenting can be challenging, but it is also one of the most rewarding experiences in life. Be patient with your child and try to understand their perspective.
Spend time with your child. Do things together that you both enjoy. (playing games, going for walks, or talking.
Be consistent with discipline. Discipline should be fair and consistent, and it should be applied with love and respect
Communicate openly and honestly with your child. Talk to your child about their day, their friends, and their interests. Listen to what they have to say without judgment.
Communicating with your parents
Spend time with your parents:
Do things together that you both enjoy,
Play games together, such as board games, card games, or video games.
Go for walks or bike rides together.
Watch movies or TV shows together.
Talk to your parents about your day, your interests, and your concerns.
Treatment
Be kind and respectful to your parents.
Help out around the house without being asked.
Do your chores without being reminded.
Be on time for meals and other appointments.
Be truthful with your parents.
Show your parents that you love them.
Tell them you love them.
Give them hugs and kisses.
Do nice things for them, such as making them breakfast in bed or running errands for them.
Communication
Be open with your parents. Tell them how you're feeling, even if it's difficult.
Listen to your parents when they're talking to you. Make eye contact and avoid interrupting.
Ask questions if you don't understand something.
Communicate your needs and wants to your parents.
Be patient with your parents.
Remember that they are human and make mistakes.
Try to see things from their perspective.
Be understanding and forgiving.
Communication
Be respectful of your parents, even if you disagree with them.
Use "I" statements to express your feelings and needs. For example, instead of saying "You're always yelling at me," say "I feel hurt when you yell at me."
Be willing to compromise.